Monday, November 20, 2023

DOG BOOK FEATURE: I AM BUNNY: How a “Talking” Dog Taught Me Everything I Need to Know About Being Human by Alexis Devine


From William Morrow

An Imprint of HarperCollins

Social media stars of @WhatAboutBunny, Alexis Devine the guardian and Bunny the “talking” dog deliver a memoir about their journey together in I AM BUNNY: How a “Talking” Dog Taught Me Everything I Need to Know About Being Human (William Morrow; on-sale 11/14/23). You likely have come across a video of Bunny, the adorable black-and-white sheepadoodle on TikTok or Instagram, where the expressive dog uses programmed buttons laid out to share relatable and philosophical thoughts such as “Love you Mom,” “Dad went poop,” and “Ugh why?” In I AM BUNNY, Devine chronicles not only how Bunny learned to “talk,” but also the profound impact their journey has had on her life. Devine covers a wide range of topics  such as:

 How pets can help with mental health: Alexis struggled with various mental health issues including an eating disorder and anxiety, on top of a drug and alcohol addiction. Her journey to recovery has been heavily influenced by her relationship with Bunny, as she learned to analyze her own emotions and experiences by first looking at how Bunny authenticity expresses hers. 

-          Bunny’s participation in the TheyCanTalk research study: Bunny is currently a part of a study at the Comparative Cognition Lab at UCSD, where they study how much nonhumans are able to express themselves in language-like ways. While Alexis is not a cognitive scientist, she can speak to their involvement and how it’s impacted her approach when communicating with Bunny.

-          Alexis’ autism diagnosis discovery through Bunny: Alexis had always a hard time grasping social nuances, but when it came to communicating with Bunny it was simpler—less to layers to peel back—because Bunny is always authentically herself. This sparked a realization within Alexis, which led to an official diagnosis of autism. Without Bunny’s influence she may have never come to this diagnosis.



-          Building a deeper relationship with your pet:

@whataboutbunny Its about time for a Bunny Beacher reunion😭 #reunion #bestie #dogfriends #smartdog ♬ original sound - I am Bunny
 The communication aspect between Bunny and Alexis has added a new deeper level to their relationship, but not all pet owners need buttons to connect with their pets. Our pets are constantly communicating through non-verbal cues, and when we’re patience and observant we can better understand what they’re trying to say.

-          Different approach to canine training: Alexis stresses the need to build a bond based on trust and respect with your dog to encourage your pet to work with you and not for you. Once you have established effective communication, then responsiveness and obedience will follow.

   

 FROM CAT AND DOG CHAT WITH CAREN: I Am Bunny by Alexis Devine is EXTREMELY well-written, (truth be told some of it seemed waaay over my head and had me questioning my own intellectual capabilities!) That being said, as a "Dog Mom" I am always seeking ways to better understand my dog. While I am doubtful I could ever teach Levi the way that Alexis taught Bunny, there are similarities in Bunny's reactiveness that have enabled me to better understand Levi! 

Alexis states "This is a story of reckoning, both personal and cultural, human and non human. This is what happens when curiosity and respect take precedence. When you give someone the opportunity to show you the nature of their world and can finally begin to reconcile your own. This is as much a story of me finding my voice as it is of Bunny exploring hers."

"Once you start really listening, worlds become accessible that are not limited by language or species, politics or religion. A greater empathy unfolds that changes not only how we communicate with nonhumans, but with our fellow humans as well."

To me that is a win-win scenario. Who doesn't want to connect with their pet on a deeper level 

The photographs are exquisite, there are many other animal studies, (horses, chimpanzees, dolphins etc), sprinkled throughout this book. 

Alexis has a delightful self-effacing writing style that makes the reader feel as if they can truly relate to her. There is humor mixed in as well. This is a must-read for anyone seeking to have a deeper and more fulfilling bond with their dog!

 MORE ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Alexis Devine is an artist and entrepreneur hailing from Seattle, Washington. She was a longtime creator of wearable art before her sheepadoodle, Bunny, known as “What About Bunny” on social media, became an internet sensation in the fall of 2020. Bunny is part of an ongoing canine cognition research study at the Comparative Cognition Lab at UCSD. Alexis is a Licensed Family Dog Mediator, Fear Free Certified Professional, and Certified Canine Enrichment Tech­nician. Her goal is to further our understanding of the power of connection and importance of empathy, meeting her dogs where they are and understanding them on their terms first to facilitate trust and promote an environment that supports them as the incredible creatures they are.

I AM BUNNY: How a “Talking” Dog Taught Me Everything I Need to Know About Being Human by Alexis Devine | William Morrow | On-Sale: November 14, 2023 | $35.00 | 272 Pages Also available as an e-book and audiobook from HarperAudio  TO PURCHASE CLICK HERE.

 

20 comments:

  1. wow that is interesting ... but I'm afraid if my boys could talk they would use swear words (oh my ) LOL

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    1. that would make it all the better!!! OH PLEASE TRY!!!!!! lol!!!

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  2. Thank you for this insight. I know I went through a very bad few years when Seney was still with me. If not for her, I may not be here today. An animal companion is a life saver same as a life preserver on a ship sailing through rough waters. Thankfully we are able to have these pets in our lives.

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  3. I would love to try this with Guster!

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    1. I bet you would be GREAT at it too!!!! Let me know if you try it!

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  4. We've never heard about Bunny and her human but think the book would be interesting to read. We popped over to their Instagram page and were amazed to watch Bunny "talk" to her mom.

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    1. I am so glad you visited there! Did you look at the videos I posted?

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  5. This sounds fascinating! The ways that animals interact with us have always intrigued me, and I'm going to take a closer look at their book time opens up.

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  6. That sounds like a very interesting book whether you are a cat or dog person. I am actually both as I grew up with dogs as well as cats.

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  7. How cool. I love pups and kitties too. They both have their good points.

    Have a fabulous day and week, my friend. Big hug to you and lots of scritches to the boys. ♥

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  8. That does some pretty amazing. Science needs to fess up and admit that all animals are much smarter that they tell us.

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  9. I’d read it and I’m not a dog person.

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  10. That looks really interesting. Thanks for sharing. XO

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  11. Thank you for letting us know about this amazing book.

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  12. I would love to know what's on Dalton's mind...esp when he goes after men, even those he knows.
    Benji would likely tell me to myob! BOL

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  13. Well that's pretty intense and in-depth. I think it's way over my dad's head, but I'm sure there are many who'll appreciate this. He says he'd be right there with you, Caren, on questioning his own intillectual capabilities. Hell, I do that with him most days anyway...

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    1. Yep it was waaaay over my head and I felt like a complete idiot. Lots of scientific studies in it too. Don't get me wrong, it's a great book, but I don't have a scientific brain cell in my body!

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