Sunday, July 9, 2023

Our Sweet Dakota Left Us Three Years Ago Today

  My first ever Sheltie, Dakota, my sweet boy passed on July 9, 2020 (9 days after Cody), after having been diagnosed with Hemagiosarcoma (a tumor on his heart) a mere month before. He was 13 (as was Cody).



It is an awful disease that has taken many beloved dogs of friends and family members. We were blessed to have Dakota with us for a month after he was diagnosed, many I know weren't that lucky. 

To think I thought Dakota was crazy when he was young! Little did I know what would be in store for me with Levi.

Dakota was sweet, stoic at the Vet, he HATED other dogs, was devoted to his "pack" at home, but wasn't much of a fan of humans that he didn't know. He never would have enjoyed going to daycare or boarding like Levi does.

He was a great brother to Cody. They truly loved each other.



He hated taking walks, wasn't thrilled with the car (he would sit on the floor). Didn't like to sleep in his bed, he preferred sleeping on the floor. If I stirred eggs he would bark. If I used spray butter he would bark. He was the quirkiest dog ever!

He LOVED his precious Greenies, popcorn, red peppers (not hot ones!), apples, carrots and the doggy meatloaf/meatballs/hamburgers I would make for him.


He also ADORED HIS DADDY!


Dakota was extremely bonded with Lenny when he was young, as time went on, he and I became extremely close. He had a sixth sense of knowing just when I needed extra loving.

He was the first dog I had as an adult and was the fulfillment of a childhood dream of having a Sheltie. He was special in so many ways.

He loved running and playing fetch when he was young.

He adored his red, white and blue Dollar store ball that we have safely tucked away in a trunk. That dog had sooo many toys and that disgusting worn out plush ball was his absolute favorite. 

The 13 years he was with us went by in the blink of an eye. I am grateful for the many collages I have on the living room wall of both Cody and Dakota, this way I can still see them both every day.


Dakota you were such a good and special boy. Daddy and I think of you, love you and miss you every single day. 

About a minute after Dakota left us, I noticed a yellow butterfly that flew right into our patio doors, I am certain that was our sweet Dakota letting us know he would always be there.


 I had always loved the name "Dakota" and when I was selecting a name for him I had looked up the meaning. In American Indian the name "Dakota" meant "trusted friend." He completely lived up to his name and more. 

Thank you, Dakota, for sharing your life and love with Daddy, Cody and I. You were the PERFECT first Sheltie.

Much Love Always,

Mom





19 comments:

  1. Hugs, love and Light to to you, Caren, as you remember Dakota on this sad anniversary. ♥

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  2. Such sweet memories of your beloved Dakota.

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  3. Dakota was such a special dog, and loved by so many of us all over the world. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. Sending you and Lenny love and purrs as you remember your sweet Dakota. XO

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  4. Dakota gave you many wonderful years to store up such memories. But they leave too soon. Not having a dog ever, I had not heard of such a tumor. How dreadful that news was to you. He obviously loved being at home where his family was.

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    1. Thank you! Yes, he was the complete opposite of Levi. He didn't like other dogs, wasn't fond of some people......he wasn't outgoing like Levi is, so he much preferred just being home with his people xoxo

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  5. I remember those truly terrible weeks and all you and Lenny went through during that time. But I also remember the joy you had with Dakota being part of your life ... and of course, Cody too. Both treasured pets. Enjoy the sweet memories, these beautiful photos ...

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    1. It was a truly terrible YEAR! We lost my stepdaughter that same August.....about 6 weeks after Dakota passed and after Cody. 2020 was a nightmare year for us. At least with Dakota we were able to have closure with a proper goodbye because we knew he was sick for a month before he passed. Doesn't make it easier, but he passed with dignity and so much love which our precious wasn't able to have.

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  6. Why can't they just live forever. :(

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  7. Sweet memories. We enjoyed these beautiful pictures. Purrs

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  8. I know you sweet baby is always in your heart. I hope you get a dream visit, or one in person. Our angels borrow butterfly and bird bodies too, so if one is around you it is Dakota (DINTE) (Death is not the end)

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  9. Sending love and hugs on this sad anniversary. XO

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  10. He was such a good brother! So many losses - so glad you have new love in your life!

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  11. Such a sweetie boy. That sure was a horrible couple of weeks. Hugs from all of us dear friend.

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  12. Aw, sweet Dakota. Purrs and hugs as you remember your boy today. Gone but not forgotten and always loved.

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  13. A lovely tribute to such a lovely dog. HUGS!!!!!!
    Purrs, Julie and the mum

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  14. Huge hugs to you and Lenny on this sad day of remembering...keep the happier memories close to your heart. They are SO precious.
    ((((( ♥ )))))

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  15. I am so sorry for this sad anniversary. We just got back from holiday today so am very late seeing your post.

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